A.
Ek shakhs bivi se lavataat karta hai, (ya’ani pichhe ke raaste se khwahish poori karta hai) iska yeh karna kaisa hai ?

Agar aisa ho gaya to iski talaafi ki kya soorat hai ?

Agar mard ke saath kare to iski talaafi ki kya soorat hai ?

B.
Haalat e haiz me kabhi apni khvahish se bivi se lavataat karta hai, kabhi haath se fayda uthata hai, mani khaarij karvata hai, kabhi bivi ke jism per ragad kar khvahish poori karta hai, inka karna kaisa hai ?

Agar aisa ho gaya to iski talaafi ki kya soorat hai?

JAWAB:  حامد و مصلیا و مسلما

A. B.
Lavataat kisi bhi haalat me jaiz nahin, khvah bivi paak ho ya Haalat e haiz me ho, agar aisa galat kaam ho jaaye, to sachche dil se taubah va istigfaar laazim hai.

Aur behtar hai ke taubah ki niyyat se kuchh sadaqah bhi kar de.

Aur khvahish ka takaazah kuchh is qadar ho, ke gunaah me mubtalah hone ka andesha ho, aur bivi na-paaki me ho, To aurat ki naaf se lekar ghutne ke alaavah jism ke hissah, masalan haath vagairah se lazzat poori karne ki gunjaish hai, aur raan vagarah se bina kuchh haail fayda uthana jaiz nahin.

SHAAMI 9/487

و اللہ اعلم بالصواب

Mufti Imran Ismail Memon Sahab.

Ustad e Darul uloom Rampura Surat Gujarat India.

ISLAMI TAARIKH: 24 MUHARRAM 1440 HIJRI.

JIMAA-SUHBAT KARNE KA MASNOON TAREEQA AUR US KE ISLAAMI AADAB KYA KYA HAI ?

JAWAB

حامدا و مصلیا مسلما

1. Sukoon ka zariya y’ani bivi ke mil jane par Allah ki ne’amat ko dilo dimag me haazir karna.

2. Bivi ke haq ki adaaygi aur nek awlaad ko haasil karne ki niyyat karna.

3. Khushbu lagana.

4. Muhabbat ka izhaar karna aur muhabbat ki baten karna.

5. Suhbat ke waqt qibla rukh na hona.

6. Suhbat se pehle boso lena, gale lagana, wagairah ke zariye aurat ko maanoos-Qareeb aur taiyyar karna.

7. Suhbat se pehle satar chhupa kar BISMILLAAH aur ye duaa parhe.

ALLAAHUMMA JANNIBANASH SHAYTAAN WA JANNIBISH SHAYTAAN MAA RAZAQTANAA

8. Sharmgaah ko na dekhna.

9. Chadar oudh lena, bilkul barehna-nangaa na hona.

NOTE : Aurat se jis tarah se chahe (Khade khade, bethe bethe, karwat ke bal wagairah tareeqe se )suhbat kar sakta hai albattah aage ki sharmgah hi me suhbat kare, pichhe ke raaste me suhbat karna jaiz nahi.

10. Mani nikalte waqt dil me ye duaa parhna

ALAAHUMMA LAA TAJ’AL LISH SHAYTAANI FEEMAA RAZA’QTANEE NASEEBA

11. Bivi ki taskeen ka khyal rakhe (use jab tak inzal na ho ya jab tak woh alaahida na kare juda na ho)

12. Dobaarah suhbat ka iraadah ho to darmiyaan me wuzu kar lena.

13. Haalate janaabat-napaki ki haalat me sone ka iraadah ho to wuzu kar lena,

14. Haalate janaabat me khaane pine se pehle hath dho lena,

15. Sakht bhuk ya bhar pet hone ki haalat me suhbat na karna,

16. Suhbat me had se aage na padhna (ek dusre ki sihhat ka khyal karte huwe limit me suhbat karna aur aese tareeqe se suhbat na kare ke bivi ko taklif ho)

17. Suhbat ki baton ka kisi se tazkira na karna.

و الله اعلم بالصواب

SUNANO AADAB DABHEL SAFA 345

NOTE:
HAR ADAB KA MU’TABAR HAWALA IS KITAB ME ALAG SE BHI DIYA GAYA HAI.

ISLAMI TAREEKH :
7 RABEEUL AWWAL1441 HIJRI

Mufti Imran Ismail Memon Hanafi
Ustaze Darul Uloom Rampura, Surat, Gujarat, India.